I Never Cease to Be Amazed....

Yesterday was a Saturday, so I made the trip to Durham early on a cold morning to get set up, along with my fellow artisans, in hopes of having a good day.  The weather has made it a little harder to attract buyers, that is for sure.  I didn't go to the market or the Food Truck event last weekend, as Hurricane Sandy's winds and spits of rain didn't seem like any fun to me.  Unfortunately the artists that braved the weather sold little or nothing for all of their trouble.  I am glad that I stayed home.
So, back to yesterday.  For probably the first two to three hours of the market, which goes for four hours, there were sparse sales for any of us.  I kind of figured it would be that way...it was a beautiful sunny day but the wind was cold and the air was cold at the start of the market, and people were moving along briskly, not interested in browsing and freezing in the process.  Couldn't really blame them for that...we were all seeking patches of sunshine to stand in to feel some warmth.  Eventually it warmed up enough for people to feel comforable enough to shop.  I had someone start looking at my bags, and then she said she had to go and get her credit card and would be back....I gave this about a 70 to 30 percent chance of being true (bad for me to be so pessimistic, I know).  Well, she was good with her word, and she returned after about 15 minutes to shop seriously.  She purchased three bags from me, some pottery from my neighbor, and on down the line...picking out unique presents for friends and family.   When she departed the market, she was definitely weighed down with all of her purchases, and we all appreciated her not just for her dollars, but also for her choice to buy from us rather than hitting the mall or going to target.com.  And we all know from experience that the receivers of these gifts will cherish them as well.  So everybody wins!
Now, the truly bizarre part of my morning...a woman stopped to look at my boho styled tunic, just loved it, and said she was going to get her mom or sister or friend and would be back.  I had a less pessimistic feeling about that.  She returned with an older woman, her mom?, and another around her age, a sister or friend?, and showed them the top.  They agreed that it looked like 'her' and she decided to try it on....it looked wonderful on her, was her color, style, fit....she was ready to buy it.....THEN...
THEN, something UNBELIEVABLE and RUDE and INSULTING occurred...she looked at the price, which was $34.99 or $39.99, I don't remember which....and had no problem with it, given what she would be getting, a one-of-a-kind original piece.  Her mother, however, looked me in the face and asked...'will you take $20.00 for it?'  I just looked at her, didn't allow my jaw to drop and the words that were sitting on my tongue to fly out of my mouth.  I said, 'no', she said 'how about $25.00?', 'no', '$30.00?', 'no', I said, 'I feel that this top is fairly priced and worth what I am asking for it...', and she said 'oh, I know its worth it, I just don't want to pay that'.   I just shook my head, keeping that mouth of mine zipped.  I held out my hands to receive the top and the younger ones were like, 'we are going to walk around and think about it'....I was like 'you do that'....
A short time later, as I had been sending out an open-hearted message to the universe to send me a different person that would be attracted to this top....and it happened.  A really nice woman took one look at the top and was just in love...it was her color and her style and she wanted to go get her credit card to buy it...I remained optimistic, understanding that the universe was in control of everything at this point and I needed to just allow....and she returned....she was a dear woman, said she had had a rough past few years and was finally financially able to buy gifts for the people that stood by her and helped her when she had little or nothing and was in such a bad place.  She ended up buying two tops and two bags, and was just delightful to talk to and was so nice to me, complimenting what I do.  It was such a wonderful example of how people are supposed to conduct themselves, and how coming from a place of gratitude and appreciation is what it is all about, on both sides of any transaction.
By the way, I did give a discount to my two buyers, giving them my gratitude and appreciation, a gift...something they didn't ask for or expect...it was for me to give, you know!

And the other ladies didn't return, which at first I thought would have been good enough for them, but then I realized that they came through my shop and my life to remind me that while I am just a tiny speck in the universe, the universe takes care of its own, and karma takes care of itself....peace to you, my friends and followers....I appreciate you more than you could ever know....